When to be vulnerable?

[dr_loomis7]

Hello all, I have a question, especially for the women, but welcome all answers (although I have a strong feeling I know what the men will say). I met again and we've been seeing each other for about 2 weeks. The other night some unresolved issue from a past relationship came up and she asked me about it (the issue was insecurity and being "weak" as my ex put it), I didn't tell her about it at first but she kept asking me about it. So I told her what it was, what happened in the relationship, and how I felt about it. She informed that it made her really happy that I trusted her to share that sort of thing and she didn't think of me as weak for sharing it. However, I fear this moment of insecurity may lower her interest level.

 

So here is my question: Should I have told her about this or played her off like it was nothing? It came on so strong and quick, she knew something was wrong and I didn't have time to recover. When is a good time to start opening up? Or should I open about that at all with someone I'm interested in?

[UniqueSoul]

i think 2 weeks is fine. be careful, but if the girl is asking you the questions, and seems interested, then go for it. maybe this will be good for you and you can grow strong from it. from trust

[Ms Darcy]

i think 2 weeks is fine. be careful, but if the girl is asking you the questions, and seems interested, then go for it. maybe this will be good for you and you can grow strong from it. from trust

 

Totally agree.