BlueRose66 Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 Dear all, I have just been reading in some threads about how facebook and other social sites sets one back. I think its only human to have curiostity about someone we have been close to and shared a life and/or relationship with. But I agree that it really sets one back. On friday night, I implemented NC to my ex. Its been three months with LC and the contact becoming less and less frequent. I am strong enough now to completely break contact of every kind. Since we are still in contact about the exchanging of things, I sent one last email. In it I made an amend, told her it took two of us and I did not feel entirely responsible, shared my thoughts and feelings about NOT becoming friends in the future AND told her that I was deleting her from facebook. I told her that I wasnt doing it because I hated her, but so I could move on! I then asked her to delete my daughters and friends ( yes, she loses her family- that is what a break up is) so we could move on privately and separately. I did this because it is in my best interest. I feel free now, and I highly recommend deleting. NC is NC and breaking all the ties is what is setting me free. Link to comment
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