Reflective Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 I don't mean to be rude here but I see it time and time again, geez even my male friends get so angry. They tell me "if my girlfriend ever aborted it's over its my decision too. it's my child." actually its not anything but a clump of cells. Its not really your decision to make. Yes you may have lender your sperm but how does that entitle you to tell a woman what to do with her own body? You're not the one having to suffer, risking your own life for a child you don't want, you're not the one goingn through body, chemical, emotional and psychological changes all in a span of 9 months. so I don't really think men have a say.. maybe their input is needed but where do some men get off thinking they can tell a women what to do with her own body? "It's my baby too." technically it's not a baby yet. "You're selfish" What is selfish about someone knowing they are not ready emotionally, financially etc to raise a child! And doing the one single responsible thing - aborting? "Put it up for adoption" (See points up there I've listed to a few examples of what women are risking when deciding to have a child) And why would a woman that doesn't even want the child waste her time having it only to put it away somewhere else? Adoption isn't a walk in a park. Foster homes, dont get me stated. "Close your legs" so it's okay for you to have sex with whoever you want. Do what you want with your own body. But god forbid a women does just that. Any idea guys? To why some men think their opinions and that they assume they get a final say in whether a woman as a child or not? Link to comment
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