octour Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 My ex texts me and wants to meet up for coffee, she wants to see a movie, go pumpkin picking, go to a football game etc. But she broke up with me 2 months ago after 3.5 years. She basically found somebody to go to immediately, pretty much that night. She met him 2 weeks prior to her breaking up with me and she has been hanging with him ever since. I am on day 5 of NC. But she still texts me and wants to know about us and the plans she wants to have? She text me goodnight two nights ago and yesterday just to say 'hi'. I really want her back and know that going NC is probably the best choice right now, but when do you know if she will just say to herself, 'I guess he has moved on and that's it'? I don't want her to have it in her mind that I am definitely over her and never want to see her again, or do I? I really love this girl and want her back. So can I answer any texts? And just say I can't, I'm too busy? Or absolutely nothing at all? Link to comment
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