Princess123 Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 Question that came to mind. If a person you had known for a only a few days decided to send you a naked picture, thoughts? Link to comment
Smile12 Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 That's very trashy, in my opinion. Because then you have to wonder how many people they send these naked pictures to? That'd be a turn off. Link to comment
ApocalypseDreams Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 She's probably not too classy? Link to comment
Princess123 Posted September 24, 2011 Author Share Posted September 24, 2011 well welcome north! I have the same thoughts. But I wonder super nice and sweet person, maybe just got too comfortable and lapse of judgement? Link to comment
Ms Darcy Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 This is my first post on here seems like a cool place. Welcome to our little community! Link to comment
PaintWithLight Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 A naked photo. Was it intended to be erotic? Maybe it was sent in error? A few more details might help us determine the motives and intention. If it was 100% completely random then, yes, it would be unsettling. But some people are more out there than others. I think Katy Perry texted Russell Brand a photo of her breasts within hours/days of meeting him. And they are married now. Link to comment
browneyedgirl36 Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 Unless I had already seen that person naked in real life -- as in, we'd already been intimate -- I'd be put off by it. And I wouldn't have seen someone naked if I only knew him for a few days, so...yeah...it would put me off. Lapse in judgement? I don't know....Seems like a pretty big thing to do, sending someone such an intimate picture. Stuff like that requires a lot of thought. Though, from what I understand, a LOT of people trade naked pictures nowadays, even if they're not dating or in a relationship. I don't get it, and I really think people should stop and think before they do it, but...to each his/her own. Link to comment
In the Dark Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 I wouldn't take someone seriously if they decided to show such pictures in such a short amount of time. I rather get to know the person before I get to see them naked. Link to comment
Princess123 Posted September 24, 2011 Author Share Posted September 24, 2011 Ya my feelings exactly in the dark. It's sort of like okay first things first I don't know you very well, second I haven't even seen you naked in person! Let alone met him and I got a naked picture. I rather dated the guy and seen him naked in person first ya know (of course after some time), lol. Bugged me a little and even if he says he felt comfortable with me and he didn't ever do it to anyone other than a relationship, still made me think! Just wanted to see other reactions and other peoples thoughts on a situation like this! Thanks much. In the fairness of it all. Conversation about oh I'm not fat see, I had clothes on, long sleeves (lol) sent that. Then jokingly sent a picture of my back side (still clothes on and head to knees) said that's where all the fat goes. He was trying to send me another picture since I sent a couple. Did me sending a picture in this way come off wrong enough for him to think it was okay for him to send that? He did say stupid idea. I don't judge him for this I think he means good and it was a one time mistake. Besides super cute and seems to be a really good guy. Loving his personality! Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 I don't judge him for this I think he means good and it was a one time mistake. Besides super cute and seems to be a really good guy. Loving his personality! A mistake? To each their own, but I see that as being immature and tacky. Link to comment
Princess123 Posted September 24, 2011 Author Share Posted September 24, 2011 Everyone is entitled to 1 getting to know you mistake heart. Genuinely he seems to know he messed up. We weren't talking about bunnies and bambi and he randomly sent naked pictures! I don't think its all too bad. Just caught me completely off guard because I never had someone do that before! Just posted here to see if I was over thinking about the matter. In my own opinion of it I think in what was said its cleared up and over and done with. Just wanted to see other peoples thoughts/reactions. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 Total dealbreaker and I would be creeped out. Link to comment
22n32 Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 Who would do something like that.. completely gross... Link to comment
browneyedgirl36 Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 If you want to give him another chance, then do so, but...yeah, I find that a bit creepy. If you've seen someone in person, you know what they look like. Heck, even if you've seen them in pictures, clothed, you have a pretty good idea of what they look like. No need to see naked pics to verify that someone is a normal weight, etc. Seems like a strange excuse to send someone a naked picture. Link to comment
Princess123 Posted September 24, 2011 Author Share Posted September 24, 2011 After evaluating I must say, I should run, shouldn't I? Thanks. Link to comment
erzerum7 Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 Head for the hills, run fast, run far. Link to comment
Blue Spiral Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 This happens to me all the time, and I'm all for it. My main thought is "This woman is awesome!" Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 After evaluating I must say, I should run, shouldn't I? Thanks. Yes, you should. Anyone who sends a naked picture to someone who is a virtual stranger, and has never met in person, is not dating material...IMO. Link to comment
Batya33 Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 Yes, you should. Anyone who sends a naked picture to someone who is a virtual stranger, and has never met in person, is not dating material...IMO. And if you agree to meet him he will assume that you'd be comfortable having sex with him right away. Link to comment
Princess123 Posted September 25, 2011 Author Share Posted September 25, 2011 Guess my initial thoughts of ignoring him were right then. Hard when they have other good qualities! Okay well I want to be on the path to amazingness, so next it is! Link to comment
Princess123 Posted September 25, 2011 Author Share Posted September 25, 2011 This happens to me all the time, and I'm all for it. My main thought is "This woman is awesome!" Worse if its a female that screams starts with an S ends with a T. So I guess it applies to men too doesn't it? Guess I had partial cloudy judgement today! Link to comment
Lamour detruit Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 Depends. A lot of women send a naked picture as well before they've even met you, so it's not just a guy thing, although guys are more likely to do so randomly, I'm sure. If everything else is redeeming, I wouldn't say run..but caution..sure. Unless you guys were teasing sexually before hand and all that, at which case It's somewhat understandable. Link to comment
Princess123 Posted September 25, 2011 Author Share Posted September 25, 2011 Your vote is to proceed with caution? Interesting. I believe if any woman sends a picture of herself naked she is disrespecting herself. More than likely sleeps around but then again that is being judgmental. You can't judge someone over one thing they do that you may find wrong because they may see it as being free and open. Okay woman have more sexual parts then men. A female has boobs, stomach (that turns men on), vagina, butt etc. Men have their penis and if they are in shape their chest/stomach. Women are technically showing more so its worse! To each their own but it sends the wrong message with females more than guys! This guy seems like a good person. How bout we will see where life takes us, leave it at that! Link to comment
Stay_home Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 Question that came to mind. If a person you had known for a only a few days decided to send you a naked picture, thoughts? That's not going to work for me. Link to comment
Blue Spiral Posted September 25, 2011 Share Posted September 25, 2011 Worse if its a female that screams starts with an S ends with a T. So I guess it applies to men too doesn't it? Guess I had partial cloudy judgement today! I am not big on shaming language. I don't think there's anything wrong with sex or sexual-related stuff, as long as it's not hurting anyone. Link to comment
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