hurtforever Posted September 24, 2011 Share Posted September 24, 2011 BU was about 4 months ago. Relationship was 9 years. He broke up with me because he was unhappy with the lack of sex (well that is what he told me). I still love him very much. When we split up he told me that he loves me but I don't know if I believe him anymore and I shouldn't hang on to this. I am finding it hard to let go after so long. This kills me inside everyday and I keep blaming myself, even though after the way hes treated me, deep down I know hes not really worth it. I've seen quite a lot of posts on here where people are unhappy with their sex life and it seems more often than not that others advise them to step away from the relationship. I haven't really seen many comments of whether they have eventually broken up and what effect this has had on both sides. Has anyone else been on the receiving end of being dumped because you had issues with sex? If so, how do you cope and move on? Because I dont think in this way and would never dump someone I truly love solely for this reason, I also wondered if anyone has dumped someone for the same reason. Would you ever want to get back together if the other person sorted themselves out and gained more confidence? I cant see myself with anyone else and if I eventually do I think I'm too messed up when it comes to trust and sex after this. I dont want to ever go through this again and am trying to look at what I need to do to make myself a better and more confident person. Link to comment
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