people500 Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 Hi everyone, I need some advice. I'm gay and have aspergers. I have a harder time making friends so I decided to join some dating sites. I've made a few friends on there, but I'm still pretty lonely. There's been a couple of guys who I talked to on there and it all seems well and then we meet in person. We seem to have a good time, and then I never hear from them again. That's where I'm having problems. I consider myself a really good and caring person, and people tell I'm cute once in a while. I've been able to handle the rejection, but the more it happens the harder it's getting. I always send them nice messages and then I don't hear back. Well one guy emailed me tonight and told me I'm not his type (we were only friends). I really broke down from that. I have always felt that a lot of people don't care for me, so to keep hearing this is making me feel really bad about myself. No one at work wants to hang out with me either, outside of the job. I kind of feel like I'm from another planet. My parents are moving to India in a few months. All this stuff is really putting me in a lot of stress. One thing I keep doing is messaging these guys and telling them how I feel. I sent one tonight and told them they all have really hurt my feelings. I know I shouldn't be doing this, but I'm having a hard letting go. I just wish they would would want to get to know me. I'm always checking my email and hoping to get a nice message from them. So basically I'm losing my mind from this. I want to stop going on these sites and stop worrying if anyone emailed me. I feel like I'm kind of getting addicted to this online stuff. Can you guys give me some advice on this? Thanks so much! Link to comment
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