Voguester Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend of 3 years at the moment and I don't know what to do because I feel like I'm being used and what he wants is unreasonable. Up to about a month ago he and I would talk every night for 3 - 4 hours sometimes, hes recently put his foot down and said that he is not able to be online as much anymore and we would have to mainly just send emails/ offline messaes but we could talk whenever he has time which could be like once a week. This is so hard for me to adjust to and I get really lonely sometimes, he revealed to me the other day that there's something going on in his life which he isn't comfortable talking to me about but it's nothing bad. So I've been doing the offline messages thing, telling him how my day has been and that I'm thinking of him etc but he hasn't replied for a couple of days, this was actually his idea that we try to stay close by sending messages to each other all the time. I feel like I really need to know the reason why he can't be around, I know he isn't really busy right now and is currently unemployed. I know him as a person really well but I don't know much about what goes on in his life and that bothers me. I'm moving to be with him next year in Jan maybe and if he doesn't want to share this stuff with me now then is he going to in the future? I would really like to ask him what the reason is so I can understand it more, Do you think I can ask him? Link to comment
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