betrayed911 Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 Hi forum,its been 5 months since gf BU with me,during that period an uknkown girl friend me in fb,and the girl i was going out with this girl ocassionaly asked me in fb if i have a gf,few weeks ago this girl and me started chatting all the time she asked me about my ex was she beutifull,did i trully loved her,we talked about what we think about love,relationships-she asked all the questins I just answered I thoud it was very weird she keeps asking me about my ex and how i felt about her-specialy since i havent heard or seen her in 3 monts+ This girl asked me about my number-i gave it and wanted her number too-she refused,so i wanted her skype,she refused again-I thoud that was dumb She asked is this my real number and she can play dirty and ask my ex if thats the real number,I asked about her number and skype she refused to give both up,and wished me good night As I was getting ready to go to bed my phone rings and its a hidden number-didnt pick up,In 30 mins rings again-didnt pick up,in more 30 mins it rings again and its still this hidden number So i picked up asked who is it,but the person on the other side didnt say a word,so i asked a few more times and hung up. Next eavning i get a sms from my ex asking me why unknown peaople ask her about my number-didnt reply to that,few hours later I get a sms again from her telling me to unblock her from skype-didnt reply or unblock her. Few days pass and my ex contacts in fb via a friend of hers account-asking the same stupid question,this time i replied something dumb,and she asked me to unblock her from skype again-this is where i thoud to myself ,,man-up bro u still have feeling for her,but beeing an ass and refusing will make u look like u're still inlove and still cant control yourself,sooner or later being just frinds was gonna happen,,... So i unblocked her from skype,was friendly and brief with her,she told me she will be online in the eavning but I didnt log in anywhere that eavning Next eavning i was a bit drunk,and logged in skype contacted me rigth away,and we started talking regular stuff,at one point she started talking about us again,asked me if i ever cheated on her asked what i didt with the stuff she present me with,stuff liek that i answered cool and nonchalantly to all.At one point we started talking about horoscope signs and she mentioned she is thinking about a man who is taurus (im scorpio).Amazingly this made me feel bad and it was getting late so i kinda wished her good night and log off. Few days later im at work-I check my phone and i got 1 missed call from ex,few seconds later she called again and picked up. It was ,,just wanted to hear how you are conversation,, but she didnt sound indifrent to me at all.When i told her i got a fly she was so worried and started calling me sweet names. I told her i was getting a tat,and when i refused to tell her what will it be,she told me to tat her name on my ..... you know what funny girl huh! She asked me about how my life was this 5 monts,asked me why i didnt log in skype last night I said i wasnt home and it was true We talked like 15 mins and i hung up. Than 2 days i didnt log in skype or fb,on the 2nd day I had to log in on bussiness stuff and she cntacted me in fb right away asking what was i doing,said i was freakign out but in a jokely manor She LOL and asked why-didnt say anything,she that asked in a jokely manor if the reason for my freking out was her she can stop contacting me This got me stunned i thoud to myself-Ok so you want to hear me say i want you to contact me...BUT i cant just say it like that you need to try harder.. So i replied ,,whatever you what,, to ,,I can stop contacting you if you want,, She said ok I wount contact you anymore and stopped,I hung arround in fb for liek 10 mins and logged off.This happened 3 hours ago. What do you guys think about all those wird stuff 1st from unknown girl,than ex,if ex wants me whyd id she say something about a taurus man I dont get it.Help Link to comment
aminaSa Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 lol i think that unknown girl is your ex ...she just created a fake profile Link to comment
CMS Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 The unknown girl is your ex, ha, childish game play, she tells you about the taurus guy to get a rise out of you, again more game playing. Link to comment
betrayed911 Posted September 21, 2011 Author Share Posted September 21, 2011 Thanks for fast replyes I think it was ex too...any word on our last chat,and what should i do? Link to comment
CMS Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 Thanks for fast replyes I think it was ex too...any word on our last chat,and what should i do? Dont stand there take hits, hit the ball back, be non-chalant, tease her for the fact she likes taurus, show you that you are not affected by her game playing (or act like it convincingly), keep interaction short and end it on a high note first by saying you have to go because you are busy. Do what you need to do to build attraction. Link to comment
betrayed911 Posted September 21, 2011 Author Share Posted September 21, 2011 I really dont wanna know more about this taurus guy And I dont want her to think im into her becouse constantly in contact with her If she want me back I want her to fight hard,If she doesnt having her in fb and skp i think its enough.I dont know how to build atracion,but i know for sure i wount contact her first... I wanted to hear opinions about her saing i wount contact you anymore..is it true Link to comment
CMS Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 I really dont wanna know more about this taurus guy And I dont want her to think im into her becouse constantly in contact with her If she want me back I want her to fight hard,If she doesnt having her in fb and skp i think its enough.I dont know how to build atracion,but i know for sure i wount contact her first... I wanted to hear opinions about her saing i wount contact you anymore..is it true Dude I have no idea what you are saying, can you clean that one up please? Link to comment
betrayed911 Posted September 22, 2011 Author Share Posted September 22, 2011 Im saying i dont want to know about her relationships,and i dont know how to act atractivly Link to comment
EgoJoe Posted September 22, 2011 Share Posted September 22, 2011 There is no other guy or she wouldn't be playing games with you! Ninja Vanish and watch her crawl. Also, block again. Jeeeeezzzeee. Link to comment
Baudilaire Posted September 23, 2011 Share Posted September 23, 2011 Tell her you're thinking about a Leo girl Link to comment
betrayed911 Posted September 25, 2011 Author Share Posted September 25, 2011 So she wrote me today on fb asked whats up we chat abit everyday stuff and she just logged off w/o saying a word and didnt log back... Link to comment
betrayed911 Posted September 29, 2011 Author Share Posted September 29, 2011 So she pm me again in fb we chat like 2 hrs and for 2 hrs she kept beeing mean said lots of stupid stuff which there is no point in sharing all the time i was nonchalant it was like she was trying to make me mad.She understands now that i dont care for her anymore(from this chat last night) and i wount chase her.At end she said she wanted to tell me those things ( all about what i said how i acted how i was jeliouc in our relationship) and that there is nothing more for us to say to each other and i can block her again-I said i wount block her,I dont care anymore and logged off now this morning i get up and she unfriend me from fb but not block. any opinions...? Link to comment
CMS Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 how about just ignore her. She unfriended you? 1 up her and block her. Link to comment
betrayed911 Posted September 29, 2011 Author Share Posted September 29, 2011 here is the chat read it its interesting: she becouse im special me funny is more like it she why r u getting angry with me me slap u she u can scare the little girls with that not me me how do i scare u,w8 dont say i remembered she cant scare me,its not what u think me hoiw do u know what i think she 4 months u havent strucked me,but now u can? me dont make me mad ill slap u ofc haha hey cmon i slapped u but not on the face she: u havent slapped me u pushed me ill never forget those things me: i see she been so long but thats the only thing I remember and im mad at myself me she im happy I remember bcs i wount make the same mistakes again,its your faulth it sucked u didnt apretiate me me do u want me to say to that she i dont want u to say anithing I just wanted to tell u this things,u doint have anithing to say to me i know me dont yea she know me get mad she would i get mad-everybody makes mistakes here is when she logged off for a bit and came back on few mins later me did u go? she here me said u worent in fb she here u know fb is my life u said it me it? she u thoud alot of stuff which warent true but u bellieve in em me maybe im mean i know haha she i dotn blame u for anything its my faulth me hard to say who s faulth was it she blame myself bcs i let many things to happen and i didnt have to me the beggining it was your faulth,later u wore ok she at the beggining it was only sex right? me she was much better than,than we wore a couple me: me too she but u didnt want only sex dont pretend me w/e i wanted i got it and it will keep be this way she ull meet someone who will make u go crazy me still waiting for that someone u already met that someone right (referring to me) she no me preteeeend ill slap u she: u wish me wish too she do but not with u me dont want with u too she to your wh0res me of those she as much as u like me not as much as i like but....there is some me wear those creazy hignheels? she now but I wear another hignheels 12cm me picture the sigth she there is ppl which like seeing me in them me not from those ppl she know nobody has to look at me me was in the past,now whoever want he can look at you and be with you she i dotn want anithign serious for now,its not tham its me me didnt learn how to talk to me why did u say for me not to dispear she do i speak with u?how r u different from anybody else?I talk the way like to and if u dotn like it that your problem u didnt learn a lot of things too me i dont like to be trown hints like that,and eversince we're not toghether i dotn have a problem she know you dont your problem was me...i let u go no more problems for u me ure one funny girl i mean...u let me go? did u let me fly away or something haha she yea.I hope u havent forgotten that after all your attempts to breake up with me when ure super drunk at the end u saw what happened tolerance stops..and than....its over me havent forgotten i learnd my lesson she very good me tooIf u had a little respect for me we could've still be toghether me i rly have no idea why r u sayng all this things to me she i need to say it bcs u said that after some time ill remember only the good things from our relationship but its been 5 months and all i remember is the bad things i feel discusted from my self for letting u treat me this way And that we gad to end it long before 11.05.10 me prob hate me she i dont i told u i hate myself me dotn hate u too even thoud i have what to hate u about she what can u hate me about u know nobody runs from goodtimes me we BU u started talking shut about me to random ppl u think i didnt find out or something? so childish she whom?which ppl me not 1 person she it wasnt like i was preading it was in a conversation,and all i said was u wore incredibly jelious nothing more me to think i didnt let any1 say a bad word about u in my presence,thats the diference between u and me she bad thing did i do to u? me acted so imature i coudnt start a serious conversation with u all we could do toghether was mess arround and laugh at stuff she we just couldnt comunicate we're too diferent 60% of our relationship u wore grumpy at me for some stupid stuff,if i look some guy or if some1 pmed me in fb shut like that me calculated it wow she to me in facts give me exsamples me it was very hard for me to not beeing able to share with u talk with u on stuff that i care about stuff that exsite me she that all? me not little for me she is for me hahaha why did u start a relationship with me that u knew from the start i wa sliek that i go out regularly i wear hignheels u want me to stop wear hignheels when im in a relation with u me not for a serious converation all u can do is overindolge and mess arround LOLing that all but im looking for serious conversation in a relationship as many others do she couldnt with u i didnt know what to say bcs u can get grumpy and stay grumpy all day about some stupid shut hahaha me we BU i remembered that at the beggining i tryed starting a serious conversation with u,to share something with u,u always turned the things into overidulge or sex,and as time passed i stopped trying and accepted u as that she can only u coudnt blame yourself for that and what wore your conversations always the same shut how,, at the begging i didnt want relationship with u but now i do..why,, how i had wh0re atitude,how i kept lookign at guys shut like that me wasnt talking about that,i mean other conversations she after all that u wanted for us to live toghether,it cant happen we wore gonna kill each other me wasnt she wasnt gonna go out w/o u nobody had to look at me,i had to look at the groud at all times me tell me how was it gonna be bcs it never happen so u dont how she just who i am i admti i liek boys to look at me all girls do me boys too haha she was your problem u thoud some1 will steal me from u me i wanted u to be only mine she was only yours,what does some1 lookign at me have to do with us me when i love i want all or none she its normal for guys to look at me,dotn u look?this is obssesion me she admit wow,change becouse the other girl wount tolerate u long me i know i dont want a cancer woman (ex is capricorn) she i thoud scorpio-cancer is the best relation in zodiac me out its not haha she wish u get a scorpio girl everything u did to me she to do with u i wish so u see how it feels me u definatly hate me she im only beeing real,se how it feels to treat u like that me i wish u meet some1 like u i wount let it happen she b so sure nothing is sertant me know me thats enough she hate the strong some weekling,but uglyyyyy nobody to look at her but you me looking for beuty inside more than beuty outside in girls she with your taste of women idk how u found me atractive me mor ei talk with u the more i find out u dont even know me for who i am and strangly that makes me feel good she you know the saing ,,i know to much about u thats why i left you,, me i dont from which pop song is it? she not from a song me ure saying it about me? she the thing i learned wore enough for me to leave me gr8 remember me that way i want u too she will no matter u want it or not me she u remember me as a shallow,coldhearted,mean lady me np she u will trully be a kitty someone will tame u me am a kitty but when i want it the other time im a tiger she the other time you're a true scorpio male u will tell about this chat to your mom suster and friends i know it me of them wants to hear about you,and its your childish behaviere that make it that way she dotn care becouse i left u if u left me it was gonna be different me left u but if u insist ill share with tham she left me bcs i bought hignheels and 3 days after u came begging me to take u back dotn turn things arround.I coudnt care less if u told em whyd o u say i left u do u want me to refresh your memory how things went?i said its over for real me your own memory i dotn care how things went yea and after we BU u didnt leave me alone and i said ,,game over for sure,, she never wanted us to get back toghether after 11.05.10 omg,the same night i went to a night club,the night after too,i didnt giva a damn she 11.05.10 i NEVER wanted for us to get back toghether i began a new life a better one me:11.05.10 she i remember the day me dont haha its good i have u 2 remind me she broke up with u and thats final for once im on top me notice your self-confidance is relay hign u think ill talk about u and sh*t she r ppl that make it hign so it will be hign me but im not one of tham so dont think crazy stuff she sure u will share with those ppl.ure game over i dont count u anymore me game over too nobody in my house cares what ure doing me too in that matter she know that w/e u say doesnt matter to me me piss me off why would u think such a thing,grow up u turned out to be so immature i feel bad about this she and your very mature me horible i thoud i grown up a bit she not im only 20 how can grown ppl understand me only u cant me idkidk she dotn know anithing says im small hahaha me ok ure big in size but small in brains haha she why am i small in brains bcs i say the things how they wore,it doesnt suit u thats why u say it me what doesnt suit me man?Im saying it bcs its been half an year since we BU and u still continue to bug me with the same shut as if we BU easterday and u act that way too,cmon get over it already damnnnnn she u wish u wish me i wanted it i know how to get it she chance with me absolutly not i wount do this to myself again me i want something i get it she u want us to try just to see if i bite the hook (idk why she said that lol) me what haha she said that if u want to be with me u know how to get me lets make an experiment see if it works me said IF i want something i get it she wow your self-conchons if higner even than miine me saying it from expirience she cant play the game-u start good but later u show your horns and game over for u me didnt get that she sweettalk someone than it gets serious and u show your true nature and game over for u me it wasnt like that with all my relationship haha she w/e u say me those things r not a game for me she have to play the game be an actor,sometimes u just have to be a very good actor me dotn need lessons from u she the true me i said i dotn need lessons from u why do u go on with it she u felt bad me is more is mor elike it she u think about how good an actress i was? me u an actress with me? she matter its long gone now me does for me I know its long gone so wore u? she wasnt ill go to bed now me 8 r u sure u worent? she why should i w8?i get up early tomorow me want u 2 tell me wore u an acress with me?and if not why did u mentioned it she told u i wasnt ill go to bed now end of conversation good night sweet dreams me say when it ends not u when u grow up u can write me again she said all i wanted,ther eis nothing more 4 us to say to eachother,u can block me again me i? she can and and the end was put by me hahahahahahahahahahah me off with u than she lost At this point i was going to block her but i stopped myself idk why she was still in fb and pm me fe wmins later she im still not blocked ...my imature self me wount block u i dont care anymore she is u got angry it doesnt matter what was the reason now good nighttttttt me with u she this off with u is old nowdays me is suits u perfectly hahaha old news like u she ok ok good night goood night At this point i logged off she was still on and this morning i noticed she unfriend me,so what do u guys think she Link to comment
CMS Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 That conversation of yours is anything but non-chalant, it screams "I am still mad", not attractive. Time to go back to NC and let that emotion die down Link to comment
betrayed911 Posted September 29, 2011 Author Share Posted September 29, 2011 what about her why does she still try to hurt me why does she still reapear,why going to all the trouble just to hurt me.And do u think I showed i still have feelings. I removed all the signs they wore like 200 so i dont think my answers showed im still mad... Link to comment
CMS Posted September 29, 2011 Share Posted September 29, 2011 what about her why does she still try to hurt me why does she still reapear,why going to all the trouble just to hurt me.And do u think I showed i still have feelings. I removed all the signs they wore like 200 so i dont think my answers showed im still mad... Who knows what she is thinking? dont ever try to figure out what a girl is true thinking about, you can win a nobel prize if you do. My point is, you dragged on the conversation way way longer than necessary, your tone and reponse gives out the vibes that you are still have strong feeling for her and is affected by her words. That is not playing it cool, those response appears needy as they seek validation from her. Needy is not attractive Link to comment
betrayed911 Posted September 30, 2011 Author Share Posted September 30, 2011 So now i log in fb and i have a friend req. and its her.I ask her what do u want she says to be friends i ask why u unfriend me she said i got mad i say why she says im still not over u i ask what do u mean she says forget it i ask forget what she says this conversation i log in skype she is there i ask what do u mean she says she was joking....omg.... Link to comment
betrayed911 Posted October 2, 2011 Author Share Posted October 2, 2011 bump bump bump! Link to comment
Hastyhand Posted October 2, 2011 Share Posted October 2, 2011 Dude, she clearly doesnt know what she wants. Dont keep yourself winded up with it. Just let her decide what she wants and THEN come to you. Communicating with her and asking about stuff can push her further away. Link to comment
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