ventdomain Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 I received a pretty ambiguous text earlier this month from my ex that I haven't spoken to in over 4 months. I still do care for her and although she only said that she hopes I'm doing well and she was thinking of me and my family, I feel it could have been her way to reach out. I'm really on the fence as to what my next step is but I was wondering what everyone here that is in the process of reconciliation went through in order to take the leap of faith and pop the question about getting back together. I'm wondering if most reconciliation attempts are sparked with a text/ phone call of "I miss you/ want to be with you" or if they're often more subtle and unclear. I don't imagine she is the sort of person who will contact me with the "I love you want you back" line unless I give her some prompt to do so. So here are my questions to you all who have either reconciled, or are in the process of reconciliation. Thanks in advance. 1) Who made first contact? Dumper or Dumpee 2) What were the contents of the contact? Was it ambiguous and testing the waters or was it upfront and direct? 3) How long was the relationship and how long had you been broken up for and in NC for? 4) What is some advice you could give someone in my position if you do still have feelings for this person but are seriously afraid to death that she (the dumper) could hurt me again and lead me on through another wild goose chase for her affection. Link to comment
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