michaelwiliams Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 Good day all, I have a problem. Since new year me and a work colleague have gotten closer and friendlier. I really really like her and want to ask her to be my gf. We have been on a few friend dates to bars and spent days at the beach. She does show signs of being flirtacious and I suppose I do aswell, however I'm bad at picking up / interpreting signals. Now being work mates this could backfire if she rejects me. If that's the case, I really don't want her to feel uncomfortable at work or feel weird around me, or that we couldn't be friends as we have been this year. I would rather be her friend than nothing at all but I can see me being a complete wreck if she finds a boyfriend soon. Her intentions are to find a bf and marry within a year or two, she has stressed to me that would be with someone she is friends with beforehand, so maybe I have a chance there. Please.. any advice is greatly appreciated,thanks. Link to comment
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