violet456 Posted September 21, 2011 Share Posted September 21, 2011 Hey everyone, I've experienced alot of heartbreak with my ex, i did all the wrong things and he pushed me away. It was when i stopped pushing, chasing, being horribly needy - with NC - that i found myself again. i am happy and life actually seems alot brighter and healthier. i say this because being a hopeless romantic as i am, thought that love would conquer all and that he would magically come back to me after 4years together and many good memories. but i had to face the facts, he chose to leave me, to not fight for us and by realising this i can see that i am more deserving than this, just like all of you out there. please dont think our ex's are your only and sole love for your life, if they come back i hope they do this because they love you and cannot bear to lose you forever because that is what i believe to be true, real love no matter what life throws at you. now despite all my bearings of knowledge and strength found, i am puzzled by my ex's actions. i have been NIC with him and he has been contacting me daily which i mostly dont reply to which he further contacts more. it is strange, i feel he is stalking my fb, as when i do not reply he will say 'nice fb photos' when i post them up rather than responding to him, that and he likes photos of me. he went out with some girls last week (not that i care) but one girl in particular he went with sent me a friend request the next day. sooo weird! i ignored it. and last night he kept trying to talk to me and when i responded with one word replies he said, 'sorry your just being cold to me. guess i deserve it and stuff' so how am i supposed to react to this? yes he has hurt me aplenty but i know deep down i still love him i just dont want to be hurt anymore. Link to comment
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