jsw Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 Hi everyone. Quick background: I dated this girl for a little over 4 months and the past month i feel like she has lost interest. At the very least, I feel like she doesnt treat me as well as I do her and that she just doesnt feel the same anymore. I'm not sure though because I get messages from her that indicate that she does still care but then nothing. So I am wondering if I should send this message to her: "Hey just wanted to see how you are. I've been getting the feeling that you have lost interest. I understand but like i said you can always tell me and I'd rather know. Don't worry about the wedding, I promise that I wont make it awkward and ill mke sure that it is still as much fun like we talked about!" her cousin and I are friends and we are each in the wedding party and are partners. that is how we met. So this isnt a normal situation. I am being genuine here and would not make it weird at all. But because of this wedding thing, I don't know if I should say this text to her or if i should simply fade away. I have been a nice guy to her this whole time - even she says so - so I dont want to be a jerk. Also, I dont want to seem like the bad guy here. The ain reason I would send it though is because I am very perplexed. Link to comment
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