KarlaW52 Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 My boyfriend and I spend pretty much everyday together. I stay the night at his house almost every night and we usually text eachother if we work. I stayed the night at his house last night like i normally do, and I had to work at 7am this morning. When I left for work my boyfriend said he would text me when he woke up later (he was going back to sleep). We normally just text eachother when we wake up if the other is working. At 10:20 I was on my break at work and I got on facebook on my phone, and it said my boyfriend was online on chat on facebook, which meant he was awake obviously. But he hadn't texted me yet. I went ahead and messaged him on facebook and said "What are you doing" and I got no response so I said "I'm confused" I still got no response from him. I logged off then back on, it said he was offline now. Then I did that again and logged back in and it said he was online again. I was thinking maybe my phone was just messing with me. So then I texted him on the phone and said "I thought you were going to text me when you woke up" then said "I'm kinda mad now" Two minutes later he texted me saying "you just woke me up with your text, I'm so confused I was going to text you when I woke up" We argued a little bit about why facebook said he was online when he apparently was not. I felt like he was being weird about it. I have a key to his apartment so I acted crazy and drove over there just to look at his computer history to see what time he was on or not. (he was at work at the time) and I looked at his history and sure enough he was awake at 10:12am checking email etc. He was also on facebook at 10:16, but he told me he didnt wake up until i texted him which was at 10:20. I have not told him about what I did and Im not sure if I should. I would not be mad if he would have just told me the truth and said "i was going to text you just forgot" or whatever, but instead he said he wasnt awake or on computer, when his history says he was. I talked to my mom about this and she said to let it go this time because it's not a big deal. I am just mad that he made me feel bad for thinking he was lying to me, when he actually was and he knew it (according to his history). I dont understand why he would lie about being awake or not. Should I tell him I looked through his computer? I feel like that's a bad idea but I want to know what other people think. I went with my gut feeling and it was right. It's not a huge deal that he was awake I just don't like that he lied to me. He also asked if I looked through it and I said no. I was going to tell him later in person but am not sure that's the right thing to do. Link to comment
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