GenoGeno Posted September 17, 2011 Share Posted September 17, 2011 Perspective molds like fine wine? Time is the foundation for realizing so many things about the last relationship and why it didn't work. I hate to say this now but I was really quite selfish in the relationship. How is it that we don't see this while in it and wave off every indication of it. I actually never believed I was all that bad and then afterwords just sometimes randomly through out the day or I'll see something. Then think back and go wow...so much perspective has just been created. Almost like the timing wasn't right for the relationship because you still had a lot more growing and learning to do to become the best person you can! There is a lot of things I wish i didn't do, careless silly things but I know I'd never do them again. It's just weird how when you're glued into the relationship those traits or things you did never seemed to change....why was it so hard to step back and see the big picture while in the relationship? Anybody else ever feel like this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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