Am i handling things right and what should i do

[TheHawk15792]

My girlfriend broke up with me 4 days ago. She broke up with me for a myriad of reason, chiefly being that i wasn't interested in the same things that she was, that the relationship had gotten to the point where it was basically only physical, and finally that we didnt understand each other.

 

We completely broken off contact I haven't seen or communicated with her in anyway since she broke up with me. Now I'm wanting to get back together with her but understand that I may not be thinking straight right now so i want to take at least maintain minimal to no contact with her. So i planned to wait a couple weeks before i tried to talk to her. My first question is should i wait for her to contact me first or should i initiate contact.

[meoww]

It's hard to say, but I'd wait and see if she contacts you. Don't be combative or overly emotional when she does though. Giving it a few weeks to blow over a little is a good idea. By that time, it shouldn't really matter who contacts who.

 

Do you have any chance of seeing her? I'd try to arrange a pleasant meet up (in a few weeks time) if she's up for it. Do something fun and not sexual in nature, since you said that was one of the reasons you broke up. Good luck!!