Cold, Hard Revenge on Ex

[angryCRAZAY]

I'm going to come accross like the WORST person alive, but I really am a good person.

 

basically, GF cheated on me, DUMPED me and left me for some fool at her work. I've actually dealt with the entire situation very well - I wished her all the best and kindly told her to never contact me again even though for some twisted reason she was trying all she could to hold onto our friendship. I was angry at one point, but I didn't go over the top, I just exited the situation. I gritted my teeth, wrote her a nice email saying how amazing she was and said goodbye.

 

I am a good man. I took care of her, I'm not abusive, controlling or nasty. All I did was be good to her. She's contacted me since and said some nasty things, although, I can't imagine why. I'm REALLY not exaggerating, I haven't wronged her in any way and haven't said anything mean, even when I was angry - just said YOU BETRAYED ME I NEVER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN!

 

Anyway, throughout all the hurt, I've been dealing with it all quite well, I think. BUT I JUST HAD THE MOST HORRIBLE DREAM ABOUT HER AND THIS OTHER IDIOTTTTTTTTTT! need to vent my frustrations and FANTASIZE about getting them both! I haven't felt this ANGRY about it, this dream has just screwed with me.

 

She's a modest, traditional Muslim girl at university. I have a video of her pleasuring me dressed as a schoolgirl and could release it on the internet under her full name and spread it around her university MUHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA! I'm NOT going to do it, no way am I going to lower myself, I'm not that person. Just fantasizing about how I could really get her. Annnnnnd I also COULD go and smash this idiot at her work to pieces, but again, I'm not going to. GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR..... K, I'm officially a psycho lol but this entire fantasy-revenge business is rather therapeutic after that dream! Promise I'm not going to do anything, it would only be a reflection of myself and I don't want to be a hateful person. Just venting. Feel free to tell me how much of an idiot i'm being, thanks.

[PrettyGood]

Well I know it's pretty hard to keep her infidelity in your heart and think or dream of it daily. But it will pass, I promise. I think it's normal to have these revenge thoughts as long as they're just thoughts. Don't do any crazy things like that, because it's illegal thing and police will find you in any way. It's very easy for computer specialists, no matter how good you hide your user profile under some non existing guy. Well, I think you should find some physical activity (go to the gym, martial arts, etc) to express your anger in a positive way. In other way you will explode one day and do something really horrible about that. And you will be sorry sooner or later, so just do something positive about it. You're much better person than you feel sometimes and you deserve a better life, don't make much more problems in your life. I think you have too many already.

[Naomi99]

It might backfire. Look how that made Kim Kardashian famous. Famous for nothing, basically.

[angryCRAZAY]

lol no, I mean I'm definitely not going to do anything. I have strong morals and a strong personality, I think revenge is one of the main reasons the world is so screwed up. If I got revenge, it would mean that I'm a vengeful person - I don't want to be that man. I really am just fantasizing, I think knowing that I could destroy her life gives me a nice sense of power right now as I'm feeling angry- but I'm not going to do it, I would be a disgusting human being if I did.

[angryCRAZAY]

It might backfire. Look how that made Kim Kardashian famous. Famous for nothing, basically.

 

lol trust me, that wouldn't be the kind of fame this girl would like! She'd probably end up killing herself or running away or something. Her family would disown her. It would devistate her to the core if that video was released! Again, I'M NOT GOING TO DO IT!

[capilot]

It might backfire. Look how that made Kim Kardashian famous.

 

I was thinking it would backfire in a different direction. Once word got out that he'd pulled a jerk stunt like that, no woman would date him ever again. And men would be stopping him on campus saying "Dude, NOT cool."

[whysoalone]

Just do it, ruin the cow.

[Oneironaut]

Nothing wrong with fantasizing about revenge, I've done it myself. I'm glad to hear you know better than to go through with it, though.

[LaDiabla13]

* * * * I wouldve done it...

 

But that kinda stuff has a way of getting back to you.

 

Chica was pretty loopy for cheating on you and expecting you to be friends.

 

Use it as blackmail. Extortion is a pretty lucrative gig..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm joking.

[whysoalone]

I was thinking it would backfire in a different direction. Once word got out that he'd pulled a jerk stunt like that, no woman would date him ever again. And men would be stopping him on campus saying "Dude, NOT cool."

 

lol, guys wouldn't go "Dude, not cool". I'd expect pat on the backs and shouts at the local.

[abitbroken]

Please erase that video.

[angryCRAZAY]

lol nope! It's the LAST thing I ever want to watch but I'm holding onto it for insurance incase she starts trying to blackmail or go properly psycho on me! I'm responsible

[aminaSa]

The best revenge is to show that you totally ignore her that you are having the best time of your life and she is the last one you think about