Becky2009 Posted September 16, 2011 Share Posted September 16, 2011 I just started dating this guy a little over a month ago. I like him alot and he likes me alot, too. I am definitely falling for him, and he has even said the same for me. He is my first boyfriend, and I am about to turn 24 in a week. I have a pretty steady job in New York, and he has an internship/part-time job at a good company. Today, he mentioned to me how if he doesn't get made full-time here he might be moving to Philadelphia within a year or maybe a bit longer. He said he didn't want to sound like he was trying to scare me or whatever, but just wanted to give me the heads up- which i appreciate. But after I got off the phone with him, I was completely crushed. Should I bother dating someone and falling in love with someone who might eventually move away? I know about long-distance relationships, and really don't think I could handle one. I am Christian as well, and I don't want to fall in love with someone and "give myself fully" to someone that I might be breaking up within a year or 2 years time anyway. . . I am probably way over thinking it for it being only a month into our relationship. . I try to forget about it and remind myself that it's not a done deal, just a possibility. But I can't help thinking of falling in love with him, him then moving away, and it crushing me. . Am I being silly? Should I just date him and not worry about this? Link to comment
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