Ms.Lady Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 I'm giving the people on this thread some hope that eventually one day they will get over their ex's. I'm long over this ex I ran into today because our breakup was back in 2008 or 2009. So I've gotten over him and moved on with my life. I honestly haven't thought about this ex in a LONG time and I remember at the time of our breakup, I was so heartbroken and confused and hurt. I ran in him today and I just laughed inside of my head because I don't find him attractive like I used to. I just really wasn't phased by him. We spoke very shortly and we parted ways and it's just funny how crazy I was over him at a point in time and now I just feel absolutely nothing for him. I even saw traits in him that I was blind to when we were together, like his arrogance and rudeness etc etc. I really laughed and said to myself, was this really the guy I was crying over 2 years ago? Even though I'm not particularly going through a breakup right now in my life, I'm single and getting to a place where I'm somewhat content with it. I do wanted to share this story that you will eventually get over your ex's and there will be a point where you'll even laugh about it like I am now. It took time for me to get over that particular ex but I got over it. I kept myself busy and I cut off all contact with him to move on.I say it took me about 5 months total for me to get over him following that strategy but it may vary for everyone else depending on how well your coping etc etc.. I hope this gives someone hope out there at least. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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