2far Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Hi I am in a long distance relationship. We have to fly to see each other. A while ago my boyfriend told me a story about a couple in a long distance relationship: The girl picked up her boyfriend from the airport wearing a coat and nothing under it. He brought up this story a couple of times before his last visit. He had mentioned before that he would like me to be sexually more open. I think he was hoping that I’d pick him up wearing nothing under my coat. I did not do that and I think he was disappointed. I have felt not as connected to him after that visit. Now, I regret that I have not picked up on his hint. I am going to visit him and would like to make up for it. But this time I fly so a coat with nothing under it won’t work. Any ideas for a hot surprise outfit that I can wear on my trip to see him? Thank you for any ideas !!!!! Link to comment
shuttlefish Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Change in the washroom just before meeting him. or how about no bra and panties...that would work. Can't think of any guy who wouldn't be excited by that! Link to comment
Unknown1607307972 Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Change in the washroom just before meeting him. This could work. When my boyfriend and I were long distance I wore new sexy underwear under a short dress that came off quickly after we got to be alone. It was too cold for me to go naked under the coat in wintery Denmark! Link to comment
2far Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 Thank you. I don’t necessarily want to do the nothing under coat thing any other hot outfit would work too. What do you mean by "no bra and panties" what would I wear on top? He will meet me at the luggage belt. Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 You wouldn't bear a bra, y would just wear a shirt. Hence, no bra. Link to comment
2far Posted September 17, 2011 Author Share Posted September 17, 2011 My chest is not very big - simply showing up braless won't be this noticeable - even though I know that he likes it Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted September 17, 2011 Share Posted September 17, 2011 The fact is fantasies like this just really aren't doable in most cases. It's nice to fantasize about them but the logistics usually don't work. Link to comment
2far Posted September 17, 2011 Author Share Posted September 17, 2011 I know things may not work out they way I want them to but I want to try this – I don’t want to look back and regret not having tried it and make this work – does this make sense? – better try and fail than be to coward to even try? Link to comment
OptomisticGirl Posted September 17, 2011 Share Posted September 17, 2011 But I think you may be wanting to try for the wrong reasons. Instead of wanting to do it as a sexy surprise, you view you not doing it before as causing him to pull away. Link to comment
greywolf Posted September 18, 2011 Share Posted September 18, 2011 Are you sure that he was kind of distant because you wore something underneath your coat? I can understand the initial disappointment, but distancing himself throughout the whole visit seems odd. Either he is extremely unreasonable and cannot deal with not getting what he wants, or something else is bothering him. Link to comment
2far Posted September 19, 2011 Author Share Posted September 19, 2011 Of course, the one event when I did not meet his expectations by not picking him up in a sexy outfit is not responsible for the ups and downs in our relationship. I know that the distance is difficult for us and we are working on it Wearing something very sexy and surprising him is just one thing I can do, but it cannot fix a relationship But I want to try things – I don’t want to look back and say “I should have” Does this make sense? Link to comment
Betweenthebars Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 Try a coat, and a skirt that's just a little bit longer. Wear maybe sheer thigh highs, garter belt under skirt, and as for a top try a sexy corset or bustier. When you meet him, unbutton the top of the jacket so he can get a quick glimpse of some cleavage and corset. At some point, if sitting, cross your legs so he can see the top of the thigh highs. It would be covered up enough for you, and sexy enough to keep him fantasizing since he knows what's under there waiting for him. Link to comment
2far Posted September 19, 2011 Author Share Posted September 19, 2011 Thank you betweenthebars right now I am thinking about two dresses I am still open to other ideas The first dress is very short and tight. Made from a thin but dense stretch cotton material. It is dark blue has long sleeves and a high neckline in the front a little lower in the back. It very tight and I think it is possible to tell if I am braless. It is a dress to go out at night. I have worn it out before with my boyfriend but with a bra under it. I thought I thought about going braless and maybe even w.o. underwear? The second dress is a white summer dress with a blue pattern light rayon material. I just bought it and have never worn it. It comes down to a couple of inches above the knee. It is backless except for a 1 inch strap going up the middle, the strap splits behind the neck. The two straps come over the shoulders / neck to hold up the front of the dress. The front has a V cut. It covers my breasts but gives a hint of cleavage. The front is slightly loose and when I move it can expose something – down the front or on the sides. I thought of wearing a shawl to cover up the back during the flight. Link to comment
Betweenthebars Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 If those are the two you are choosing from, I definitely think the first. But when you see him, you should also whisper something sexy in his ear about not wearing any panties, you want him, etc. Something to stimulate his mind as well. Link to comment
Betweenthebars Posted September 19, 2011 Share Posted September 19, 2011 To give insight why I said first dress: it's short, and if you wear heels it will show off your legs wonderfully, which most men I know love. The long sleeves can also be seductive, and I'm a firm believer in sexy yet classy, so tight + long sleeves + showing legs is a good combination. Link to comment
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