Daisy11 Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Okay so long story short, I went through a horrible break up about a year and a half ago when my ex-fiance' left me. Through all of it I leaned on my friends, family, a therapist and ENA to get me through it. One of those friends was my best guy friend, Justin. He lives only 3 miles away from me and is literally the closest friend/family member distance wise so he was the one that got the late night phone calls to "come over" when I was going through the worst of it. Over the past year Justin and I would go to dinner or for drinks maybe once a month or every two months and talked on the phone about once a week or less. We became close, talked about everything under the sun and really built a great frienship together. Some might even say he was my best friend at the time. Well over the past 2.5 months we have taken our friendship a step further and have started a dating relationship. At first it was great to finally kiss him and go out with him on romantic dates and get to see him nearly every day or at least 4 times a week. I mean, what's better than dating your best friend, right? Well now it feels like we aren't talking as much and he just wants to have sex. I mean every single time we are together that's what it feels like it's all about. I used to enjoy my sex life with past boyfriends, now it almost feels like a chore because I feel like that's all our relationship is. Before we started dating our frienship had no physical part to it what-so-ever so that wasn't a distraction at all. Now we went from one extreme to the other. How do I fix this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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