beacon Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 This isn't a topic that I've really seen on the boards. Does anyone have experience with wanting to keep mutual friends and maintain no contact simultaneously? Sometimes I just think I should try to be forgiving and work towards being friends with her so we can be around mutual friends simultaneously, but I'm not sure how either of us will handle the situation. I've had one other big BU in my life and lost mutual friends that I miss to this day. I don't want that to happen again. We all know that people "know" what is happening in another's life. Avoiding contact with her makes me not go to places I've been frequenting for years and even if I do go there, people will ask about it and I don't want to be in that situation. It brings about an overwhelming rush of 234 feelings at once. In order to progress, I have to feel comfortable in these places. I have to get out and see people that I enjoy. In this situation, no contact makes me feel weak and seems to be counter-productive to my progression. Any experienced insight here would be very helpful... thank you for reading. Link to comment
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