Tussin Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Ok so back when we were a couple, my ex and I enjoyed taking photos of ourselves "in the act" on our cellphones. Now Im regretting it. So in order to "get to me" now she is sending me pics of us and telling me how hot they are. I dont understand what state of mind she is in. Drunk? Playing with me, or angry, or just thoughtlessly trying to stay in touch? She dumped me and now she is punishing me for the NC? I dont get it. I didnt respond. But wow that is a cruel and thoughtless thing to do! Link to comment
Seraphin Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Wow i feel for ya man. What she is doing is pretty cruel!! Id be like * * * I said no contact so what is all this about?? You dumped me and now you send me this?? I aint interested in games! Link to comment
TomboyMS Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Ok so back when we were a couple, my ex and I enjoyed taking photos of ourselves "in the act" on our cellphones. Now Im regretting it. So in order to "get to me" now she is sending me pics of us and telling me how hot they are. I dont understand what state of mind she is in. Drunk? Playing with me, or angry, or just thoughtlessly trying to stay in touch? She dumped me and now she is punishing me for the NC? I dont get it. I didnt respond. But wow that is a cruel and thoughtless thing to do! Wow! That's a new one. I'd be pretty mad. Link to comment
Tussin Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 Then there is always the outside chance that she is somewhere regretting her decision to dump me and sadly reminiscing about it, and is wanting to reach out... Who here thinks that could be it? Link to comment
meoww Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Step back for a minute and think about what she's doing. She's pretty twisted...I feel for you. I've been there, my suggestion is not get baited by this kind of behavior. She has no respect for you at all. Do you think she'd be behaving like that if she actually cared about you? She'd be knocking down your door or at least refrain from the sleazy texts. It might have been hot during the relationship but it's just creepy now a healthy reconciliation doesn't typically start with sexting. Link to comment
sonypirates Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 it's possible but so are tons of other possibilities. need some back story Link to comment
Tussin Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 Well.. My very first post here told the long version of my back story, but basically... - We met at the beginning of April and our relationship took off at 100 mph from the beginning. - We fell in love rather quickly and within 2 months she was talking about marriage. For her profession she knew she was going to have to move, but we discussed all kinds of options for how we would proceed. - Unfortunately she suddenly got news (much earlier than expected) that she was going to have to move accross the country and that was at about three months. - We decided to do the long-distance relationship and my plan was to visit her, take a look around for work, and tie up my loose ends here, and then within a few months I would have moved out there. - Almost as soon as she left, her communication dropped. She was avoiding me and sending me breadcrumb texts. It was only when I was about to get on a plane to go visit her that she suddenly broke down and told me that she had been in touch with an ex that she never told me about, and they were in the process of rekindling their relationship. - So I was merely a rebound relationship - But then it seems that after one unsuccessful date, that all fell apart. - It is also possible that in her new city, she went out and got drunk and hooked up. Dunno, but it isnt out of the realm of possibility because basically that is how we met. - Meanwhile we actually kept light contact, because she said she would pay for my canceled flight, and also I shipped all of her personal belongings back to her. - Finally those things are taken care of (well, she knows her stuff is in transit anyways) and I was waiting to see what more there would be. - now this... Link to comment
Seraphin Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Wow....just wow..... Seems like she has taken off at 100mph hit a brick wall got into a new car went even faster hit summat bigger and is now trying to come back??????? You sure about all of this?? Link to comment
jjcool00 Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Plain and simple she is trying to do or initiate contact that will generate a response. She know's how to push your buttons. It's like when a girl says "I'm pregnant." Even though she's not, you know she's not, you're definitely going to respond. She's doing the same thing here, trying to throw something against the wall in the hopes that it sticks and makes you break NC. Stick to your guns, don't fall into these traps. Link to comment
madine Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 no contact! Seriously, do not respond to any of this crap. Link to comment
oreogod Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 Just don't respond. Or tell her 'that's what my friends said too' Link to comment
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