yellowjello Posted September 15, 2011 Share Posted September 15, 2011 ALL YOU NEED TO READ IS THE RED PART. THE BLACK IS DETAILED INFO THAT IS COMPLETELY OPTIONAL. THE RED IS THE BRIEF STORY. The other day I went to go see my boyfriend. I got there a bit late and when I got there he said he had to go soon. He only had like 20 minutes to hang out. He wanted to hook up. He was really horny because he hadn't gotten any since he last saw me (a week ago) and he pretty much already had a boner. I didn't really want to hook up and when I told him that he was kind of annoyed. He tried to convince me to at least get him off but I said no. He said he just wants to leave then. I asked him to stay and hang out at least. He didn't want to. He basically would only stay to hook up. I said he still has 15 minutes left, why can't he stay and be with me for those 15 minutes. I don't remember exactly what he said but all I know is he didn't want to. When I asked why he didn't want to, he talked about why he really needed to hook up. I kept asking why he needs to leave and I remember at one point he also said something about why would he want to waste his time sitting here and talking. I said "talking to me is a waste of time"? I don't remember what he said to that but it was something about the reason why he wants to hook up (since its been so long) or about how he needs to go. Then I said I wanted to show him something, and I got out this pen and book that I wanted to show him. We talked about that for 15 minutes. Then the whole hooking up vs leaving thing started again. I sat on his lap and said just stay with me. He gave a really awkward smile and was smiling all bashful and asked why I'm acting like this. He looked at me and said I'm so pretty and I'm sitting on his d*** how can he not want to hook up with me I'm turning him on so much. He said since he stayed with me for the entire 20 minutes (which was now over), he will stay an extra 15 if we devote 10 of those to hooking up. He said I am lucky to even get the other 5. I got up and said you know what if you don't want to hang out with me it's fine, I'll just drop you home. I started walking away, and he said "wait". I turned around. He said "It's only because it's been a week and I've been really horny all week thats all." and be basically tried to explain why he wanted to hook up so bad. I told him I understand why he wanted to hook up, I just don't get why he wanted to leave when I said no. He didn't really have an answer to that. He told me to come back and started kissing me and being all nice. I gave in and just got him off. But basically here is my question: It is NOT the case that he is just using me for sex and doesn't care about me otherwise. If he ONLY wanted to hook up ALL THE TIME then that would be plausible. However we spend lots of time together all the time. We always hang out and we always talk for hours and he always asks me to do things with him like go shopping, go to the beach, spend time with him. We lay in bed and talk and cuddle. We talk on the phone for hours. He calls me every night. So this is NOT a relationship where he is only interested in sex. So then I really don't understand why he wanted to leave. It made me FEEL like he is only interested in me for sex, and that really hurt my feelings. But I'm sure there is some other reason for his behaviour. Maybe since he was really horny, he just didn't feel like hanging out. Maybe he was slightly annoyed that we couldn't hook up so he wasn't in the mood. Maybe since he had his hopes set on hooking up and didn't get that, he didn't really have an interest in doing anything else. If its any of those I will feel better. So basically I am asking you to give me possible reasons why he wanted to leave. If you give me some reasons it will make me feel a lot better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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