girlfromjersey Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 For the ones that know my dilemma. I had a very ugly phone argument...well, it felt more like a fight with my SO. He made a stupid comment about how I am the one taking this relationship to the dumps. The way he said it, i could just have slapped him. Ugh! I could cry at work right nOw...don't give an f who sees me. I figured i have been not doing my part but not to blame it all on me. HoW I am never on time for anything, how I don't try to be more committed as I am to my work. I'm guessing he is upset because I had to stay late. But no need to be that nasty to me. How in the heck am I suppose to sit down and have a conversation about anything if he believes he is not the one to be blamed for? *worst Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happyfrank Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 Take this conversation in person or call when your at home. Doing this at work or break can effect you at work and maybe get you fired. Girl at my work had argument over the phone and was let go. Please relax!!! good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
girlfromjersey Posted September 14, 2011 Author Share Posted September 14, 2011 Yes that is true. Good thing I'm the only one around here right now and good thing I had my office doors closed when it happened. I wasn't expecting this. I really wasn't I don't do this stuff on the phone. He caught me by surprise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
In the Dark Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 ^ I agree, this needs to be done at home. You just need to make sure there are valid points as to why the relationship is going to the dumps. Because form what I gather so far,. it maybe you, him, or both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
girlfromjersey Posted September 14, 2011 Author Share Posted September 14, 2011 Yes, thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Osram Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 He's probably on his man period you'll sort this out at home and all will be good, good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben2011 Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 Hey, sorry to hear that. Yes, I agree aswell with taking that call at home. But I did noticed you mentioned you have an office? Well, yes is true. People can get fired but BELIEVE ME everyone has those kind of calls at least once, at work. Don't know your story very well but for I can tell here, you aren't happy. Is he? Are you both blaming it on each other? Don't take anyone's advice wrong. It seemed that you got a bit upset with your last answer. But hey...maybe once you get home, you and him can calm things down. You are more than welcome to PM. -Ben Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
girlfromjersey Posted September 15, 2011 Author Share Posted September 15, 2011 Ben- I appreciate your post. I didn't take any advice wrong. I'm not happy, you're right and well I guess we'll sort this out when he is back from his trip. and I did, thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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