Struggling with all of this crap!!!!

[rina17]

Me and my ex broke up 6 weeks ago and she has blocked me from everything, even blocked my friends number... but Recently i went on my friends fb page and searched my exs ex facebook and found out she is friends with her.. this really hurt me due to the face that i thought she really disliked her and she did love her alot once. After that, it made me feel like everything we had was a lie...

 

After few days, she found out somehow i did this and blocked all my friends.. and even her ex blocked me ( which doesnt make sense because i dodnt know this girl)

 

I feel so down ugh...

[camus154]

Don't you just love FB?

 

Seriously....when you were nosing around on your ex, were you expecting something GOOD to come out of it?

[rina17]

No, but i never expect that from her

[camus154]

Why are you expecting ANYTHING from her? She's your ex!

 

I don't understand why people poke into their ex's business and then waste energy trying to find answers to all the inevitable questions that are bound to come up. It's none of your business!

[thejigsup]

Because some people still feel they have a right to know about an ex's life. They do not, but don't tell them that. That is why they get angry or upset when their ex finds out they've been snooping and blocks them. IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT THEY ARE DOING.

[arwen]

Hey Rina, I'm sorry for the breakup

 

I think it's best if you completely break all ties to her, especially via social networking. It's just setting yourself up to get hurt.

[Live-N-Learn]

That is why I deactivated my fb account months ago. My healing and mental health are worth more! Why on earth would I want to torture myself by looking up my ex? It's like stabbing yourself in the leg with a knife.

 

You need to let her go and stop trying to be part of her life. It sounds like it is over and it's time to take care of yourself.