Dougie_D Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 I'm 30 years old and I am trying my hardest to meet new people. I have lived in LA for about a year and a half. I basically work at home or where my computer is at. Sometimes I bring my laptop to the "office" but it's just another building with 3 other dudes. I've asked this question before but I don't really see the benefits of all the possible places to meet new people anymore. I feel REALLY lost in this department now. I go to MONTHLY meet-up group but it's 1 day in one month. Most of these people are male or/and married. Not much selection or new people to hang out with. It seems like any other such meet-up group will be the same. The online dating will never happen. I'll go back and forth with some emails and once I ask to actually want to hang/meet them I get NOTHING back. My other roommate is a very attractive fit guy and the WOMEN are the ones that ask HIM OUT. It kinda sucks because he takes the site as a joke. I want to find a positive solution but I've come up with no answer. I've been doing more of NOTHING lately. Am I being bitter, or is just the reality and I really need to accept I'm going to die with never being in a relationship? I didn't have many opportunities to even be in a relationship. Every single girl that I have ever been friends with was a mutual friend of or the girlfriend of a GUY I was friends with. And most all these girls had a major crush on them. I never could actually MAKE a relationship with a girl that was started from the two of us and THEN build friends around OUR RELATIONSHIP. I have basically been the 3rd wheel my entire life. I have more "couple" friends then you would ever imagine. Life sucks today.... Link to comment
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