aulelia Posted September 14, 2011 Share Posted September 14, 2011 My ex boyfriend broke up with me around 2 and 1/2 months ago and we've been NC (my choice) for around 8 weeks. His reason was he didn't feel the same anymore. The normal ''it's not you, it's me'' and ''I love you but I'm not in love with you'' nonsense. Recently, I heard from a mutual acquaintance that she went to a dinner with him the week where he broke up with me, and he told the people at that dinner that he was planning to break up with me because he wanted to go out and party. This dinner was before he broke up with me. I was really hurt when I heard about this. I know 99% that she is not lying because she told me the names of other people who were there and she just has nothing to gain by making it up. I've known about this for around 2 weeks or so - I am just so angry at how he could have been talking behind my back like that about breaking up with me to basically strangers or just acquaintances who are not even his close friends. It's just so cavalier. I'm planning on leaving the country in a few months - would it be worth breaking NC to let him know that I felt humiliated over this whole thing and that his behaviour of talking about me to these strangers before he ended with me was wrong? Thoughts much appreciated. Link to comment
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