Ex Called Me

[lonelyguy21]

So me and my ex have been broken up for 3 weeks now, we were involved in an off and on again relationship for 10 months, mostly off due to his personal issues. This was the third breakup. We had a really bad breakup and the week after the breakup we decided to stay as "friends", He had no problem moving on and I of course have had a hard time.I Made it clear I needed my personal space and had no intentions to communicate or maintain a friendship anytime soon and decided to leave it as it was. On Saturday he called me hysterically and desperately crying because of a major problem in his life. I listened and we decided to meet up for lunch the next day. The next day he blew me off and then turned the tables and made it seem like I wanted to hang out with him when clearly i was just trying to be there as a friend. I am very confused why he would call me in the first place when i should be the last person on his mind due to me still having feelings him not having them back. Please help.

[jjcool00]

When people are emotional they do things out of character. Read stories here: when you act upon your emotions you lose logic and reasoning. Most likely he was emotional and called you and then realized he shouldn't have done that for whatever reason. I'd suggest you don't serve as his emotional crutch any further. Let him contact his friends or family with whatever he needs help with. He needs to know he cannot depend on you unless you can depend on him. NC NC NC NC NC NC