kasey5 Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 I recently started talking to my ex boyfriend again, secretly, because my parent's don't care for him. We broke up about a year and a half ago, and kept in touch ever since, but the feelings never went away. Any ideas on what to do to break the news to them, or let them know i am still in love and want to be with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stay_home Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 Do it on a meetup. Why did you two breakup? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kasey5 Posted September 12, 2011 Author Share Posted September 12, 2011 Mainly because of arguing a lot, and he wasn't treating me like he used too....but he seems different this time around. How would i do it on a meet up? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stay_home Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 Mainly because of arguing a lot, and he wasn't treating me like he used too....but he seems different this time around. How would i do it on a meet up? Well... everybody argues. As far as how to do it, genuinely I would guess. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
abitbroken Posted September 12, 2011 Share Posted September 12, 2011 I would make sure that he just doesn't look good because "you can't have him." Your parents have a point if all they saw was the two of you constantly arguing, especially if your moods at home were quite down about it. I think there are feelings, and then there is honestly assessing if a relationship is healthy and then giving yourself permission to fall for someone or not. It is exciting to talk to someone secretly - its a rush and a thrill. I think that you should just plan to run into eachother and tell your parents that you did as a matter of fact story about your day and tell them he seems to have grown up if you think that is true. if he was not a destructive influence in your life, they'll see he's changed, but probably just don't want you to be miserable. How old are you, by the way? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kasey5 Posted September 12, 2011 Author Share Posted September 12, 2011 I completely understand what you're saying! I'm 20, but still living under their roof. I just want them to be happy with whatever decision I make. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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