One day...

[bri427]

i read alot of stories on here about people being broken hearted and in misery not knowing when it will get better or IF the person will come back...

 

its sad, i been there. i know the many nights alone with ur thoughts and memories (ugh those suck haha) and how bad losing love can feel inside.

 

a dear friend of mine on here taught me a lesson i wish i found out sooner...people are going to come and go. some will hurt for years, some will fade quickly. but its not about them leaving...its about what you got to enjoy while with them. thats the part that keeps them in our hearts forever.

 

lol i wanna just erase every past ex or lover from my memory and start fresh with a positive,naive outlook. but thats not possible.

 

im hopefull one day someone will come along and make all the trial and errors worth it! and im sure that day will come when least expected.

 

 

guess my point for this is: dont give up. and dont be so stubborn you cheat ureself at being happy again. you will! just enjoy the people you do still have and remember each "ex" teaches us all soemthing...big or small, purposefull or not...they do teach us soemthing in the end.

 

you gotta date and meet a whole lot of wrong ones before you can find your right one!! stay strong and keep going on!

[Carus]

Mine's been a long road back....I needed this today....Thankyou Bri*

 

8-)

[ferna3069]

hello bri what you said is deffenatly true. i have another thing to add to this. when people come and go the best way to keep them for longer is to learn from the last relationship. dont keep any anger in because you will treat the next person like you did the person before and this new person who can be more amazing can leave sooner. hope it make sense lol

[bri427]

Carus- very welcome sometimes it helps to read soemthing positive to remind you it will be ok.

 

ferna- true true!!! its not fair to hold a new person resentment because of an ex. need to treat each relationship brand new and just be cautious. the more u go thru the more you learn. you become less naive lol. im bad at not sabotaging relationships, i tend to bail out now before even seeing if theres a good chance. im working on it.