jeremyy Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 If you could get back at them (the exes) for _______ with no repercussions... What would it be? I would probably just throw away her shoes. She loves those things. Except for the ones I bought for her. Link to comment
Seraphim Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 ^^ Yeah me too, it is not in me to be bothered. Link to comment
1m50L0nl3y Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 I think the best way to get back at them is having them posting threats online about how wonderful you are, and then having some random online dude bursting her bubble Link to comment
jeremyy Posted September 10, 2011 Author Share Posted September 10, 2011 Yup, and then she gets all mad about it because she knows she's not even 10% of what she thinks she is. Silly girl. Link to comment
1m50L0nl3y Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 I'm going to LOL after the post of how the "football" went I'm so looking forward to part II of the story haha! Link to comment
jeremyy Posted September 10, 2011 Author Share Posted September 10, 2011 He's gonna tell her to jump off a bridge next and I bet you 100% she's gonna do it. What desperate girls do. Link to comment
1m50L0nl3y Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 I hope she .. Anyway if I could get revenge from my ex I would probably throw her Iphone,books and magazines off that same bridge. Link to comment
Le MX5 Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 I'd probably hook up with her beautiful best friend.. If she didn't have a boyfriend that's also my friend, lol. Link to comment
jeremyy Posted September 10, 2011 Author Share Posted September 10, 2011 Wow, finally people that actually share my sentiments. I believe my ex would rather get stabbed than have her shoes thrown away though. That's like 100k worth of shoes. And the damn iPhones, she couldn't get off that thing. Link to comment
1m50L0nl3y Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 I hate iphones, not because I use blackberry but seriously now that she doesn't call me I wouldn't mind throwing it off a bridge, the same as I wouldn't mind throwing off all the "useless things" she had. Link to comment
TakingtheBlame Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 I'm going to LOL after the post of how the "football" went I'm so looking forward to part II of the story haha! Just saw this. I'm famous! Awww, you guys! How are you two still single? Link to comment
TakingtheBlame Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 And don't worry jeremy. When you've actually got that medical degree and are more than just some doctor's kid, all those hot, educated girls that you break up with on a whim will be begging to come back to you and watch football too! It's only a matter of time.... Link to comment
thejigsup Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 Well, if she is halfway attractive, she will just get another guy to buy her some replacement for anything you destroy. For every man who tries to hurt us, there will always be one who wants to impress us. It's just the way it is. I, myself, would never do anything to hurt anyone. Not my thing, I'm a lover. Link to comment
king6 Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 When I think "Get back at them" I think they must have done something very awful, something life changing/altering.. terrible emotitonal/mental damage.. For example, My ex left me, took my son, my step daughter and went straight to a new guy. She took everything out of my home, Told me he was going to be the father to the kids, took me to the cleaners on child support, moved in with this new guy, Told me how I was a deadbeat dad, worthless father, bad boyfriend, horrible names, belittled infront of the kids, and everything was my fault because I did not marry her after a 6yr relationship. I fought her for 2 yrs, paying over $900a mth in child support on a $2000 a month income.. paying my own mortgage, other bills, paying for my kid when with me, paying a lawyer to fight for me, and she fought dirty, used everything to her advantage, lots of manipulation and lies, made false police reports on me, had cops come talk to me several times, played any strings she had to try to get me to give up on my kid. I spent 2 yrs in emotional agony hell, working several jobs to keep afloat, pay for a lawyer, going to several court dates and enduring her scream and yell at me, degrading me.. many times I was short of having a mental break down, Stress was so bad I was on blood pressure meds and there many times I just wanted to call it quits Did I want to get back at her? you bet. But in my heart I know it all comes back around. And it does, I eventually won the custody I was willing to agree to for my son, I spent a total of 3k on a lawyer, she spent 20k on hers, The guy she left me for was an alcoholic and abusive, he put her in the ER a few times -witch she hid, Shes now got more debt then ever, and Both kids beg her to let them see me. That guy eventually left her.. and He even sent me a message on face book telling me "I should have listened to you" (I had messaged him explaining what was happening when she ran straight to him) and basically told me everything he dealt with was EXACT Same as what I dealt with. He couldnt believe I lasted 6yrs with her. And hopes that I can find someone to appreciate me as I should have been. I think ultimatly my getting back at her will be finding someone who truly loves me, having a family with them..and she can live with her self knowing all that she did to me only made me better then I ever coulda been with her. I have talked with her several times after all this blew over.. shes still stupid about everything and blames me for everything.. and what it comes down to was " I wasnt affectionete enough, I worked late, I didnt marry her after 6yrs and she didnt think I ever would, and my friends didnt like her because she had cheated on me in the past and controled me" . I still think about all those reasons and cant believe all the crap I dealt with because of absolutely nothing, how hard is it to agree to breakup and go your separate ways and be adult about your children. Instead it was like she wanted to punish and make me suffer for not marrying her. Link to comment
SorrowandPain Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 I just don't understand how someone with whom you share your entire heart can do something like that. Glad you made it out ok man. Link to comment
Live-N-Learn Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 Getting even with an ex is not something I even want to consider. I respect myself enough to let it go and move on. I don't need o lower myself to that level. She can deal with her own issues they are not mine. No one is perfect in a relationship and I will not spend my energy on something like this. Link to comment
SpottiOtti Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 You know, my ex put me through some serious stuff. Raped me, held me hostage, pointed a gun at me, broke a bunch of my stuff, sabotaged my car, stalked me, then told everyone we broke up cause I "hit" him and was "abusive". But if I think about what I could do to get him back, I can't even come up with one thing that I could do that I wouldn't feel bad about later. Interesting. Link to comment
king6 Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 Thats really messed up ^ Sounds like you should have press charges against that ex If he did it to you.. probably will do it to someone else... that doesnt even sound like an ex.. sounds like a criminal. Link to comment
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