jsw Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Im just wondering do girls not go for the nicer guy when they are younger? I am dating a girl, shes 21 and I am 24. Thats not a huge age difference but a at point where it seems bigger. I just graduated graduate school and started a job, where she just turned 21 and is in her senior year of college. She just moved in there and all her friends are turning 21 too. I would understand if she is not looking for anything but she used to text me all the time, say things were perfect and that she liked me a lot. But lately she ahs been cold and I get the feeling that she may be seeing other guys or at least still not over her ex. Heres what I dont get: I have treated her better than any of her last relationships - even she has said so. Her last ex that she may not be over never took her out, rarely treated her, and never showed any emotion or real interest to making plans. He has no job and is not going to school. They would fight very badly, to the point where she would scream at him in ways that she never thought she would. I dont put pressure on her physically and yet I feel like what i do is not as appreciated. in fact this last weekend she was supposed to let me know about if she would be able to hang out and I never heard from her...not even a text saying she could not make it. Do you think shes not interested anymore or just enjoying her first week back at school? I basically have still been nice and sweet in texts but have been waiting for her to text me rather than the other way around. Is nonchalant a good way to go about this, or be more direct? Link to comment
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