girlfromjersey Posted September 8, 2011 Share Posted September 8, 2011 Hello everyone. New to this site in hopes for some solid and sincere advice. I am going to rant here...but don't even know how or where to start. I really don't know if I am ready to open up completely just yet. I am wondering why men (not all) do not continue to be romantic, passionate, mysterious after the 1st or 2nd or 3rd year of a relationship, whether is dating or in marriage. I am lacking that feeling I had when I met my significant other. He tries, i know. Don't we all? Perhaps in his eyes i am lacking the same. I have managed to move from imagining naughty things with him, to flashbacks of a past steamy relationship, which I know is wrong at some levels, perhaps all levels but so far, those flashbacks help me, in many ways I don't know how to begin addressing this situation. I need to have that feeling back. That sensation of arousal by the touch, or even a soft whisper in my ear. I need the aggressiveness, passion, and all those things that are part of our lives when we fall deeply in love. This could be a silly attent to feel needed. But I am a hopeless romantic. Thanks to anyone who reads this. -from a jersey girl Link to comment
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