Strategies for asking a crush out on a date.

[MoggieGirl]

This points to the subject of women asking men out since not enough women are doing this. Imagine this. You have a crush on a really cute guy. You know him on an acquaintance level. What do you do?

[blackhawks1287]

In what situation do you normally see this person so I can better evaluate? What type of atmosphere?

[MoggieGirl]

On the bus to work, partially walking towards the next bus (he catches a different 2nd bus) and on face book.

[blackhawks1287]

Well if you two are friends on facebook just start there...maybe chat a few times, small talk, and then you can escalate it to sitting next time him on the bus and talking and getting to know each other more...flirting, bantering back and forth.

 

But that is how I would proceed. Start off slow and indirect with facebook, get friendlier and then escalate it to the bus...if it has not already happened.

 

How much interaction have you had with him? How far has it gone? What do you already do on a day to day basis, including facebook with him.

[MoggieGirl]

I'd rather not give out too much detail or I might reveal myself too much. I wish to be anonymous. I just want to hear other peoples strategies how they approach asking out a guy they have a crush on. Ok, just a little detail. We've had quite a few

conversations but we don't talk every day. He told me he likes my shirt twice but I think that could just mean he likes my shirt so I won't read too much into it. But that is 2 shirts out of my wardrobe. He

offered to let me borrow a book a while ago but he didn't bring it. He is 10 years younger than me and super cute.

 

Oh, and he does like and comment on some of my face book posts.

[banal]

I'd rather not give out too much detail or I might reveal myself too much. I wish to be anonymous. I just want to hear other peoples strategies how they approach asking out a guy they have a crush on. Ok, just a little detail. We've had quite a few

conversations but we don't talk every day. He told me he likes my shirt twice but I think that could just mean he likes my shirt so I won't read too much into it. But that is 2 shirts out of my wardrobe. He

offered to let me borrow a book a while ago but he didn't bring it. He is 10 years younger than me and super cute.

 

Oh, and he does like and comment on some of my face book posts.

 

You might reveal too much about yourself - you want to be anonymous?

 

What are you looking for here?

[MoggieGirl]

I better leave then. I'll figure this one out on my own.