Voguester Posted September 8, 2011 Share Posted September 8, 2011 I've been with my long distance boyfriend for 3 years now, we have met in person and it was amazing however we live in different countries. We probably talk to each other for 4 hours every day except on weekends, there's a timezone difference of 8 hours but it hasn't really been a huge issue in the past. Now he's suddenly saying that the communication has to stop, that he needs this time to focus more on himself and where he's going in his life (he's currently unemployed). He says we can still write to each other though, send emails and offline IMs etc. This is pretty strange to me because he spends his days reading, listening and playing music, watching tv and constantly telling me about sports events he's going to or has been to. It's not like this is the schedule of a busy man. I'm at a real crossroads now because I was planning on moving to his country next year to be with him which he has supported and says hes looking forward to it etc but when I mention it the other day he says that I shouldn't be doing this for him, that he's not worth it. I told him that I don't know if this little communication for the next 5 months is going to work and he's said it's my choice and to let him know what I decide. It's sad because I'm sure I'm not the only one who was in love here, we're so great together and I've never felt this way about anyone else. What do you think I should do? I've thought about not contacting him for a couple of weeks, give him what he wants and this no-contact business...I have a feeling that he would be pretty shocked if I disappeared for a while. I just feel like w.t.f I am being used here. Link to comment
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