lanaa Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 she is very young,,just 23,and you are 31..of course she is not ready Link to comment
chitown9 Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Maybe she's not crazy - maybe she's just being 23, and not ready for the same level that you want (as you're what, 31?). In fact, that would almost appear to be a more obvious explanation than mental deficiency of sort sort. Who said she is crazy? Who said she has a mental deficiency.... Link to comment
Tired Tiger Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Who said she is crazy? Who said she has a mental deficiency.... It's more than implied when assigning a label like "commitment phobe". Link to comment
lanaa Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 No i will not agree,im a girl and im 22.I also used to date guys older then me but now i prefer guys my age(22 to 25,something like that).And most girls i know think the same.So..younger girls prefer older guys ,,,but after you reach your 20s the guys become mature so girls stick with their age.But then again im in Europe and maybe its different in USA Link to comment
90_hour_sleep Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 It's more than implied when assigning a label like "commitment phobe". i concur... Link to comment
chitown9 Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 Commitment phobia is a condition, but not a mental conditon as in "crazy." ....chi Link to comment
22n32 Posted September 9, 2011 Author Share Posted September 9, 2011 No i will not agree,im a girl and im 22.I also used to date guys older then me but now i prefer guys my age(22 to 25,something like that).And most girls i know think the same.So..younger girls prefer older guys ,,,but after you reach your 20s the guys become mature so girls stick with their age.But then again im in Europe and maybe its different in USA So ur saying I don't have a chance Haha I know what ur saying. I always liked 3-7yr gap. Works great.. Link to comment
lanaa Posted September 9, 2011 Share Posted September 9, 2011 So ur saying I don't have a chance Haha I know what ur saying. I always liked 3-7yr gap. Works great.. Im not saying you dont have a chance,im just saying its wrong that most girls prefer older guys..some do but most girls over 20 prefer guys around their own age Link to comment
vanillacupcake Posted September 10, 2011 Share Posted September 10, 2011 Im not saying you dont have a chance,im just saying its wrong that most girls prefer older guys..some do but most girls over 20 prefer guys around their own age Haha, I am 29 years old. My ex had just turned 24. First time I dated someone younger than me. But maybe I wouldn't be on these boards if that was the case? Link to comment
22n32 Posted September 10, 2011 Author Share Posted September 10, 2011 Im not saying you dont have a chance,im just saying its wrong that most girls prefer older guys..some do but most girls over 20 prefer guys around their own age Yeah its just not what I see, almost seems like after high school or college nobody dates there age.. in school when ur 17 ur not gonna date a 23 yr.. But its diff after school its a big dating pool... I honestly don't know one person who dates their age.. I have a 29yr old female friend she is married to a 35. Other is 31 dating a 39... I think its the opposite of what u said in their 20s is when people start dating around diff ages.. In ur teens and school your most likely to stay around your age.. That's just my opnion... Link to comment
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