Sanity Posted September 7, 2011 Share Posted September 7, 2011 So I posted previously about my circumstances. Long story short, my ex is older. Shes 24 and I'm 21. Dated for half a year but broke up because of age difference and I didn't want to ruin her future as my parents warned me about marriage and told me to see how things go. We stayed in love but it was complicated. A year after breaking, July, we had a big argument and didn't talk for two weeks which was when a new guy entered the picture. He was there for her when she was very hurt over the argument. When I apologised to her 2 weeks later, I realised something was wrong. This new guy scolded me on facebook in which I confronted her saying why the hell did our personal matter involve another guy. This guy said he was her bf and asked me to lay off her. I asked her and she denied it. She started crying and saying she still loved me very much but thought that our argument was the last straw. So I forgave her, we continued to communicate from late July. She slowly distant herself from me. 11 August, on her facebook showed shes in a relationship with him with pictures of them kissing, wearing rings and progressing really fast. Constant facebook wall posts. I did not know this until my friend told it to me. Did not know they progressed so fast until my friend showed me her wall 2 days ago. So, 15th august Monday, I told her that I had been pushing her away because of that and hope she made the right choice. At this point I did not know they were already IN the relationship, thought it was courtship. On the Wednesday after she posted how much she missed me on her blog, to the point of tears. I made the mistake of contacting her and telling her not to cry and that I'm fine as I didn't know they went that far. So, do you think this is a rebound? 1) Hes only 18, and he said he would quit smoking for her, and bought her a ring 2) Hes immature and definitely not her type, she just graduated and starts teaching next week while he is a college drop out 3) She said she missed me several days after she started the relationship with him 4) She had just met him and only started talking to him after I argued with her. He said it was 'love at first sight'. She told me she didn't have a good first impression on him 5) She is very emotional and goes by emotion, this guy is good at sweet talking and she was vulnerable from our argument 6) 27th July she told me not to delete her from my life, then 2 weeks later in a relationship with a man that is 'flawless' whom she met through a mutual friend a month before. I know they won't last with all these circumstances and I should actually hate her for leading me on. But it surprised me that their relationship progressed so quickly. This guy is a LDR and she met him for 3 days and already started kissing and in a r/s. She tells me he is flawless from only knowing him for a month prior to relationship. Link to comment
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