jackieee Posted September 7, 2011 Share Posted September 7, 2011 * After my ex broke up with me, I initiate NC and a month later my ex start texting me again. The text gets flirty, and he keeps talking about the good times we have, commenting how good I look and even talks about our sex life. It goes on for a month until I confronted him what exactly does he wants, he said he just wants to be friends, and later the texts went less frequent, not flirting anymore and now I haven't hear from him for 5 days when he used to text me almost every day. I don't get it, if being friends is what he wants, bringing up * old memories certainly is sending out mixed signal and confusing too. My question is, why dumpers in general will want to contact the ex when they didn't want together back together, and when the ex already initiate the NC? If they want to be friends, why flirting with them again and when comes to serious talk, they go cold again. * Link to comment
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