Charingx1 Posted September 6, 2011 Share Posted September 6, 2011 Within a month of my ex dumping me after a 15 month relationship she joined a dating website. I found out big argument (I had told her don't contact me if your looking elsewhere) and she blamed me saying it was for confidence that I had drained from her. Since found out she's back on there most nights and had a date arranged but he obviously fell through as she's back on there again. I guess this is just a rant really. She's always sought attention from other men, cheated on her ex numerous times. Didn't cheat on me but found out she lied about talking to her ex and did sort of ego boosting stuff like any emails from guys she would save like she's almost excited by the attention. When we split I asked her to love herself, stop needing validation from men. It seems that because I wouldn't put up with secrets when with her or her entertaining male attention from men interested in her that she lost confidence. Then within a month she's seeking validation from men again. I mean some guy she doesn't even fancy asked for her number and she refused but was far too over excited and intrigued by it. She thrives on male attention. Just makes me wonder if our whole relationship was a joke. I'm worth so little to her that rather than have a period of being single, she hunts out random men online. Sorry just a rant. Link to comment
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