jsw Posted September 6, 2011 Share Posted September 6, 2011 Hi all, So i have been dating this girl for about 4 months. Everything was great in the beginning. About 2 months into it I said to her I don't know what her situation is, but as for me I am happy seeing you and not looking for anyone else. She said she isnt either but that she is happy where we are and needs some more time before anything really serious. She went on to say everything was perfect, she liked me a lot, and I couldn't mess anything up. Fast forward to now and I am totally confused. I dont hear from her as much anymore. In fact, the last week and a half the only days we would talk was if I would text her first. Days that I did not text her first, we did not talk the whole day. I also asked her what her plans were for the week and if she wanted to get together. She said that she would let me know about doing something saturday. Well all day Friday I never hear from her, and all day Saturday I never hear from her. Nothing. Not even a text letting me know that she can't do anything. Lately, I have also felt that it is always me who is asking her when/if shes free and saying "ok well let me know". putting my weekend on hold just to see her. Then on Sunday I get a random text like nothing happened. Not a sorry, or anything else like that. I respond to her, but after a lot of time went by (I was also busy that day and normally would text her back immediately but decided not to for obvious reasons). I was not myself in the texts either, except one time when I texted her back again after a long wait. Here is my question. Do I call her up and ask her what the deal is? I have always told her that I would want an honest relationship, no matter what level it is at and its always better to know. Or do I just kind of let it go, let her reach out to me and treat her like a friend? Here is what makes it harder: her cousin is getting married in Dec. and we are both in the wedding and partners (I met her through her cousin). So its not like a random girl that I just met... Thanks! Link to comment
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