"He who cares least, controls the relationship"

[Tom94]

This is indeed how you should play it. But what if you've made mistakes down the road?

After a week of NC she started to text me, saying she missed me. 2 weeks into NC and she got pretty desperate. She told me she missed me like hell, she was jealous because another girl had been texting me (even if I told her it was absolutely nothing), she told me she wanted to see me, that she was thinking of giving our relationship another try, etc. So I thought I had her back... I told her exactly how I felt, I told her I wanted her back and still loved her, etc. I even told her that I had been ignoring her because I did not want to get friendzoned. I told her I was going to come over at her place. We talked and then she wasn't sure if she wanted me back... So I guess I screwed up by going way to fast. How do I play it now? If I go NC again, she knows I'm playing mind games. We're now a couple days after that. She still initiates contact.

[kengleong]

Its a big No to meet back your EX. Simple mistake.

[kash63]

thank you Airbag for valuable information.

 

Can you please cater for a marriage relationship with kids?

 

I am finding it very difficult to navigate through the push, pull, getting over, fear of loss, and no contact.