relm Posted September 5, 2011 Share Posted September 5, 2011 Hi, I am shy and a trauma survivor but am looking to date. There is someone I met online that I'm interested in and she's interested in me as well but we're in the very early stages. She is asking what do I want in a relationship. I don't want to scare her off by letting her know I've had a traumatic past but it will become obvious quite soon because I have trouble with trust and being vulnerable. One really great thing about her is that she makes me feel at ease and we can easilly talk for hours - that is very unusual for me. I really do want to date her, but anyway, I'm not sure how to proceed with someone, be honest with them, but not scare them away by revealing too much too soon. She's very nice and I'd like it to work out, but am I asking too much of her to give me a lot of patience? Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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