Jnyce2010 Posted September 5, 2011 Share Posted September 5, 2011 I've been broken up from my ex for two months, we were together for a year and I came to the realization that I really was not in love with her.. I wanted to be and tried to be, but ultimately I felt sorry for her and I just wanted to make her happy. For the past two months I have abstained from sex and alcohol.. I have also tried to go back to my religious roots.. I started a new job about a month before the breakup and in the past month I met a woman from my job who I seem to get along with well.. I have proceeded around every corner with caution because I do not want to be jump into something else.. I came to find out that she has a boyfriend. I have done everything to respect because in the past before this two month transformation I would have no regard for any other guy.. I like her, I'm pretty sure she knows this.. We talk at work all the time and we even hang out at my place outside of work.. I feel that she wants me to giver a reason to leave her boyfriend.. She never talks about him and we have frequent close talks.. My question is what is the meaning of all of this? Just yesterday she came to my place dressed really provocatively and she requested a hug from me after we talked for 4 hours. She asked if I had a problem with with hugs, I said no I am a very physical person..I just told her I know myself and I know shes in a relationship and at this point I don't want to put myself in a compromising position.. I hugged her and she moaned! lol She also made it clear when I expressed my concerns that as long as I know those boundaries we will be ok, then she says let me know if it gets too weird.. I want to make a move but I want to be sure. I hope there are some women out there that can translate all of this for me.. Id really appreciate it. Link to comment
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