Boyfriend broke up with me..

[Bolegged04]

My boyfriend of 5 months recently broke up with me stating that I was aggravating and getting on his nerves. When we first met everything was great (as always) and then things started to go downhill. He would say mean things to me and hang up in my face. I could never talk to him about anything because he felt I was always nagging. Two months before the break up, we were watching a movie and I fell asleep and he got really angry and cursed me out and left. I went out one weekend with my friends to celebrate and he got mad and stopped talking to me for three days because he said only * * * * * * goes to club. It hurt really bad. We stayed only 20 minutes from each other and I wouldnt see him much and when I would ask why he doesnt see me, he said because he knows I will bring up something about the relationship. I only wanted communication. He had a bad habit of hanging up in my face, cursing me, ignoring me and making me feel bad. I remained the same throughout the whole relationship, even though it was wearing on me. When I finally pulled back, he made his way back to me saying he would do better adn he didnt want to lose a great woman like myself. A week after that, he called me and told me he wanted to be single and he couldnt put up with me cause I was aggravating and stressful. I explained to him that you cant be one way in a relationship initially, and then change. All I wanted was communication and he wasnt giving me that until he was ready. when I would try to talk, he would cut me off or just say mean things. It bothers me because I was really sweet, respectful, honest, and loving to him. I stuck around because I thought he would realize what he have and then change, but it didnt happen. Its been 3 weeks and Im farther along than I was alst week..but why do I feel hurt and used?

[DN]

but why do I feel hurt and used?

Because it hurts when you are used.

 

I think he did you a favour by breaking up with you and you are far better off. Look for someone who understands what being in a good relationship means.

[Princess123]

Sounds like you were just a rebound girl for him or booty call, did you sleep with him? You should of broke up with him long ago, good riddens.

[torieann]

I went through a similar break up, for whatever reason it seems like we all want to wait for him to go back to being sweet and we wait and wait but sometimes it just doesn't happen. I can promise the hurt will get better, maybe not go away because the things that happen to us have a way of changing us, but make the change for the better. Just know that in the future if someone treats you like that you don't hang around long enough for them to do the same. This guy was a real jerk and no girl deserves to be treated that way, So just know that you are worth much more. Stay strong

[1m50L0nl3y]

I wonder how you managed to keep up for 5 months with someone who called you a * * * * * , hung up on your face, and made a habit out of degrading you. Don't you value yourself at least a tiny bit? Have you been abused during your childhood?

And you feel hurt and abused because that's what actually happened to you, I think you should learn from this lesson and never allow this type of treatment from him and/or other men, otherwise you will suffer a lot in your lifetime.

[Bolegged04]

I put up with more than I should have. I know Im a great woman, but I was looking at what could be than what was. The only thing I regretted is staying after the first month. I learned so much and would never put myself in that predicament again. Its plenty of good men that would appreciate me one day!