Doc Blaze Posted September 3, 2011 Share Posted September 3, 2011 How can i help my gf relax? the first time we had sex together, we kinda just went at it..i guess i was a little bigger than her other boyfriends and i hurt her the first time we had sex. since then she always thinks about the pain before i put the condom on...and starts to get worried...PS we do use lube... say were at home, start kissing, which leads to foreplay..things get hot and heavy and she is really into..then one of us makes the move to have sex...grab the condom..she get nervous.she says it hurts when i first put it in then, it gets better but it always hurts the first time i put it in...im a giver and want to please her and have her enjoy it like me so its kind of making me feel bad which makes her feel bad. she also told me that she was able to orgasm with her ex bf but continues to say its def getting better with us and i can tell by the way she is getting into it with me...sometimes she says it starts to feel like nothing after while, ok but not as good as before...and lastly in my sex life she comment on how many ex gfs ive had and how her body doesnt match to theirs so she has become kind of self conscience of her body which ive told her multiple times that i love her body the way it is, there is serious nothing wrong with her body ... i dunno what to do...sex has been getting better but its still lacking a bit...are we trying too hard? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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