mofo Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 Hi all, I'm 35. I just ended a 'realtionship' with a girl that I couldn't trust. I had been with her a couple years ago after her marriage broke up (but she was still living with her husband). I really liked her but always suspected she was lying to me. Turns out she was having an affair with her husband's best friend all the time she was with me. I ended it right away and it really hit me hard that I was so gullible. It took me months to get my head around it all. I figured if she'd do it to her husband with his best friend she'd do it to me. Her lover's wife was also her best friend. Trouble is I hooked up with her again 4 months ago and got involved again. Same thing all over again - I couldn't let go of the fact that she had lied to me and cheated on me - so why should I have believed her this time? I finished it last week but she wants to keep in touch, as she says she wants me in her life in some way. Had all the tears and I love you...but it didn't seem genuine. I know in my heart she was cheating around again and I'm finding it hard to stop trying to figure out what exactly happened. I ended it but I'm struggling letting it go? Any advice please?? Link to comment
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