zheath Posted September 2, 2011 Share Posted September 2, 2011 Ok so here's the scene, I met this guy on Halloween last yr. We hooked up and I was expecting it to be a one night thing only he got my number and then me around for a couple of weeks. So I lost contact with him until a few months ago and he wanted to catch up. So we went out to lunch which turned into dinner and clubbing and then back at his house for the deed. I should point out that this time I was looking for something more. I know that I shouldn't have slept with him this last time as it's all about the thrill of the chase, but we both had a fair bit to drink and really wanted it. Anyway so now he's doing the usual guy thing of not calling or getting in touch. He's sent me 1 txt since then and it was when I had gone to bed early. I replied the next day but since then have had no contact. I know he's lost interest due to the fact that we had sex so soon but I some how want him to know that I'm not a . I wasn't with anyone in between the two times we were together. My problem is how/when is ok to tell him that? I'm giving him a week and then he has lost his chance for anything else with me. I was thinking that at the end of the week, if I've heard nothing then I'll txt him and let him know and then that will be it. Does this sound ok and not like I'm being a needy or stalkerish? I'm not trying to entice him back, I just want him to know that there's something kinda special about him which motivated my actions. Obviously thats not what I'll say but thats what I want it to mean. Link to comment
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