Gimpyrks Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 Hey everyone. I had been seeing this guy all through out this summer. We got super close and slept with each other a few times towards the end of the summer. I am in a different state right now then he is because I am in college. But...before I left something happened. He went on vacation to see his family for two weeks. He said that he would be back in time to make it to my going away party. Well needless to say he didn't come to my party, and he never contacted me while he was away. I wasn't too bothered that he didn't contact me while he was away because he was visiting his family that he hadn't seen in three years. When he didn't show up to my party I was hurt...very hurt, and my family put it in my head that he had used me. I guess deep down I felt that way too because that became my way of thinking. So I sent him a text explaining how mad I was at him for missing my party when he said he would come. Then I called him on his cell and just said, in a nice tone "Hey...you missed my party today was just seeing what was up and I guess we need to talk". Then I sent him a facebook message because someone mentioned to me that maybe he had gotten hurt. So I sent him a facebook message saying that I was worried about the possibility of him being injured so if he was okay to just tell me. Well, then I guess my twin sister sent him an e mail that was pretty mean. Two days ago I got a text from him. He explained that he had extended his family vacation because he enjoyed it so much and that his cell phone didn't work out in the state he was in. I live on the east coast and he was in Cali. He also said that he was mad at me for the drama I caused and that we were over. I have never caused drama in the relationship, this was the first incident. I feel like I messed up and I enjoyed him so much in my life and I want to apologize..but every time I think of an apology it doesn't come out right =/ I really stink in these situations. It's been two days since he contacted me and I feel heart broken. More so then when he didn't contact me after my party (then I was just ticked off because I felt like he used me). Should I apologize? I really miss him. I know I'm in college and I'll meet new people but..I don't know he felt perfect for me. Can I get some pointers on making a good apologizing? Link to comment
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