TarProductions Posted September 1, 2011 Share Posted September 1, 2011 Hello, I have a problem. The girl that I love and would like to marry, still is not over her ex husband. She tells me that she loves him as a person but, no longer is in love with him. She claims that she has moved passed everything but, why it is that he never wanted to have sex with her which casued the divorce. She says that he will always be in her life, as a friend. That she will not ignore him if he messages her on facebook. I told her that I am fine with that but, wouldn't be okay with her going out with him to dinner or lunch. She said that she needs to try to meet up with him because thats the only way he will talk to her about. When she tries to do it over the phone or online he tells her he has to go. I told her that until she completely move past him that I will not consider proposing to her. She claims that its not fair because she has asked him the last three years, and he still hasn't given her an answer. I told her that I will not be married to someone who still feels the need to figure out past problems from years ago with her ex-husband, and that she should have figured this out before getting into other relationships. So I guess what I am asking, is should I end it? Should I give her an ultimative? Please help. Link to comment
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